Savoir-faire looks like a word that should mean the same in French and in English. But it doesn’t! Savoir-faire in English is the ability to act or speak appropriately in social situations.
Savoir-faire in French, however, means skills acquired by experience in various practical problems when doing one’s work.
Savoir-vivre in French is knowing and practising the rules of politeness and usages in social situations, which sounds suspiciously like the English savoir-faire.
Savoir-vivre in English is good breeding and knowledge of polite usages.
In French, but not in English, we then have savoir-être which is the capacity to adapt to different situations and adjust behaviour according to the characteristics of the environment, the issues involved and the type of person concerned.
That seems to correspond to some extent to our interpersonal skills in English which are the life skills we use every day to communicate and interact with other people, both individually and in groups. They are also called social skills and people skills.
How about a few examples to make it all a bit clearer.
We’ll start with savoir-faire in French and go from there. I’ve chosen “real-life” sentences from the web because the subject is a little complicated.
Les maîtres artisans expriment leur savoir-faire ancestral associant des prouesses techniques et des innovations dans leurs créations.
Rough diamonds are brought to life by master craftsmen using skill and artistry that has been passed down through generations.
So here, the French savoir-faire is rendered by skill and artistry in English.
Même s’ils ont récupéré du matériel hautement technologique, du matériel militaire américain en Irak, ils n’ont pas le savoir-faire pour mettre en place un missile.
Syria’s stockpile is potentially “like a gift from God” for militants since they don’t have the know-how to assemble such weapons, while some of Syria’s chemical agents are believed to have already been fitted into missile warheads.
Here, know-how is used in English, which is by far the most common equivalent of the French savoir-faire.
Now, savoir-faire in English.
It betrays your lack of savoir-faire, of good taste, of any sort of culinary judgement. You can almost hear the stifled gasps of fellow diners.
Il n’y a rien de pire que les chuchotements et autres bavardages à l’opéra, même si vous avez l’impression que personne ne vous entend. Vos voisins pourraient s’agacer de votre manque de savoir-vivre et vous décocher un rappel à l’ordre poli… dans un premier temps.
Certainly not know-how, skills or artistry, is it?
Next, savoir-vivre in French
Au travail, certaines interactions sociales peuvent mettre mal à l’aise. Et malheureusement, beaucoup de personnes se couvrent de ridicule car elles ne savent pas que les règles de savoir-vivre au travail sont différentes de celles qui s’appliquent dans d’autres contextes.
We all know that the essence of good manners and etiquette is to be respectful and courteous to all – all the time. But what about in the workplace, what’s expected of us? When it comes to workplace etiquette, there are written and unwritten rules.
So the French savoir-vivre corresponds to good manners and etiquette in English.
And what about savoir-vivre in English?
How can something as instinctive as the need to create your own nest or space be so unimportant to so many people? A futon just doesn’t do it. Some people have “it” — savoir-vivre — and some don’t.
Then we have savoir-être in French
La différence entre deux candidatures a priori égales se fait désormais sur le « savoir-être ». Plus le candidat est « adaptable », « optimiste », « créatif » ou « doté d’un esprit d’équipe », plus il séduira le recruteur.
To succeed in management you need good interpersonal skills, you need to understand how to deal with other people.
So savoir-être in French corresponds to interpersonal skills in English.
A little summary to end with:
French | savoir-faire | Savoir-vivre | Savoir-être |
English | skills, artistry, know-how | Savoir-faire, good manners, etiquette | Interpersonal skills |
Now, before you go, which of these concepts do you think are illustrated in the photo – don’t forget to specify the language and explain why!